Whether you are new to the community, trying to find the best way to explain it to some one else or you're here because your partner has expressed that they are a Little or Daddy and you wanna know what its all about; You have come to the right place! Here I will explain the basics of what a Dd/lg relationship truly is.
First and foremost, Dd/lg is not a incest relationship nor does it sexualize children.
Dd/lg stands for Daddy Dom/ Little Girl. Despite the name this is NOT an incest relationship. Variations of the term Dd/lg include: Mommy Dom/Little Girl (Md/lg), Daddy Dom/ Little Boy (Dd/lb), and Mommy Dom/ Little Boy (Md/lb). Dd/lg is a dominant/submissive age play relationship between two consenting adults.. This community also includes Caregivers (used as a unisex term for the dominant), “Siblings”, and Babysitters. The age levels for Dd/lg are Littles whose age regression ranges between 2-7 years old (Most common term used), and Middles whose age regression ranges between 8-13 years old!
Many people outside of this community find it repulsive or wrong due to the age regression aspect of it all. I have heard others state that being in a Dd/lg relationship sexualizes children or encourages pedophilia. That is NOT at all true. Although it is a BDSM relationship, a majority of the people in this community do not see it as a sexual kink. Many couples prefer to only have a Dd/lg relationship that is non-sexual, often used therapeutically to heal childhood trauma, reduce stress and be nurtured by their dominant. The dominant's typically prefer the relationship to be non-sexual due to the role they play in treating their little as the age they regress to.
The Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver is the one that takes on the dominant role in the relationship. This person nurtures and disciplines his/her little. Assuming the role of an authority figure. They may give their little rules to follow, such as : a bed time, reminding them to eat or take their medicine, no swearing, limit their sweets intake daily, and may also include chores. The rules are typically put in place to give the little a sense of structure as well as look out for the age regressers best interest. A caregiver may also lay down a list of punishments if the rules are not followed or the little is being "bratty". Some examples of these punishment are: Time out, taking away their toys or pacifiers, or no dessert. A caregiver may also tuck their little in bed at night, give them baths, make their plates and bottles for them and take them to fairs, or playgrounds etc.
The Little is the submissive one in the relationship. This person is more childlike, enjoys coloring, watching cartoons, and speaks in a little girl/boy voice. Littles also use pacifiers and sippy cups, love stuffed animals and have a favorite “blankie.” Littles tend to dress in onsies similar to the ones that a baby or toddler would wear, cute tutus or anything that makes them feel their appropriate age whilst in littlespace.
The last thing I would like to cover is a little bit about Littlespace. So, Littlespace is the term used in this community to describe the emotional and mental state a little engages in when they age regress. Often, the dominant in the relationship helps the little reach this headspace. Littlespace helps the little revert from their daily adult life filled with adult problems and stresses, into a more carefree and youthful mental state. The dominants in this community use the term Daddy or caregiver headspace.
Alright so now that you know a little bit more about the basics of Dd/lg please leave a comment, tell me if you have any opinions on this topic or any additional questions.
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